tough stuff

OK well here is something that has been on my mind tonight. Lets say you have a friend, who likes this guy.

Well it turns out this guy is also an pal of yours but he does not like your friend as much as she likes him.

The problem arises when this girl friend of yours cannot read the signs and see for herself that he is not interested in a romantic relationship with her. In this case is it appropriate for the friend in the middle of all this to set everyone straight and just give her friend some tough love?

I know support is important but come on.

I think I would just want the truth. Some members of the female race are not so united in this idea. Some think that it is still right to just stay out of it and just hope and pray pray pray that she figures it out.

However. I think that when the guy involved is also a friend things can get a little more complicated.

You may start asking questions like, " Well whose side am I on?" or " If i invite her can i also invite him?".

All this is so unfair.

And that is why i propose a new law for the girl code. Not only will it be unacceptable to date a friends ex-boy friend but you must also never date a friends current close guy friend.
In this way, the problem may not be solved but others like it can be nipped in the bud. Its like a band aid. Best ripped quick.